Sonntag, 6. November 2016

Relationships


Hi there :-)

I have been thinking a lot about life goals and my relationship lately, that I eventually decided to write a post about it. Today is a very special and emotional day for me. Seven years ago my boyfriend and I met in a nightclub in Bournemouth, England. We were both totally drunk :) and had the best time with our school friends. Somehow we stayed in touch but nothig happened until one year later, when we started dating. 

Six years have gone by so fast and when I look back, I see a lovely journey with highs and lows, unforgettable moments, cool adventures and a lot of love. Now we are about to take the next step and move in together. Probably you are thinking why I am writing about all this? Well... six years is a very long time and a lot of people ask me how we do it, why we never argue and what our secret is.

First of all I have to say that there is no secret recepe for a long lasting relationship. And you can never compare your relationship to others, because every single one is unique and different from all the others. Of course there are some important features a relationship should have - trust, love, care, communication, support, fun and so on. But in the end maybe it is fate, or luck, and the right circumstances that make a relationship last.

However, whether you are in a relationship or not, please remember to stay true to yourself and have a little faith in the universe, that everything will turn out exactly the way they should. Don't be afraid to take risks for love, love unconditionally and know when it is the right time to let go. In the end, you and your happiness is all that matters - and sharing it with someone is just the icing on the cake!

“To love is not to possess,
To own or imprison,
Nor to lose one's self in another.
Love is to join and separate,
To walk alone and together,
To find a laughing freedom
That lonely isolation does not permit.
It is finally to be able
To be who we really are
No longer clinging in childish dependency
Nor docilely living separate lives in silence,
It is to be perfectly one's self
And perfectly joined in permanent commitment
To another--and to one's inner self.
Love only endures when it moves like waves,
Receding and returning gently or passionately,
Or moving lovingly like the tide
In the moon's own predictable harmony,
Because finally, despite a child's scars
Or an adult's deepest wounds,
They are openly free to be
Who they really are--and always secretly were,
In the very core of their being
Where true and lasting love can alone abide.”
                                      - James Kavanaugh

Happy Sunday and be happy! 
 
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